Being the unpopular 30-something year old

“It’s not as simple as that.” Or,

“Why does everything have to be so complicated with you? You think too much.”

I hear those words a lot. Mostly from men trying to pursue a steady relationship with me, or the rather unfortunate ones who try to engage me in some form of hurried feral exchange of fluids that’s likely to leave one of us deeply frustrated. So yeah, it definitely deserves to have the ensuing complicated conversation. Continue reading